effects of lying in a relationship

LIES

very general, yet important

in anykind of relationship

friendship, family, husband-wife and all general relationship

WHY?

people tend to lie the partner in a way to protect them, or maybe jaga hati the partner?

idk, for me in any ways pu, try not to lie

try to tell the truth, sepahit manapun, speak out abd settle down

"nanti gaduh"

in my opinion, at least! jujur - gaduh - settle and tak terkesan, instead kena tipu, you rasa people will trust your words again?

hati tak tenang, because full of doubts

too many questions in mind

too many truths come out

how?

people tend to doubt, and ignore your words

re-think and reflect

HOW CAN IT RUINS THE RELATIONSHIP?

like i said, people will be less trust you 

and it aint easy to regain the trust back

so how? what is going on?

more arguments will happen

more fights

A wanted explanation , the real one

B keep lying

A is not satisfied...

relationship is at the most critical point when

there's no efforts done to comfort, convince and speak out the truth

there's no chances given 

hati perasaan yang dah kena tipu tak fix balik

and worst to worst, you relationship is on thered line

break up

you sure w it?

hilang orang yang you sayang

seeing them happy w otherguy/girl which you know you guys used to have the best before

hati sakit, mental down

aint easy

unless kau memang tak sayang dia, kau akan happy with the break up, and kau takkan terasa nak jujur

you choose

leave or deal?

ingat balik hari pertama kau cakap kau sayang dia, betul ke tak?

kenapatipu if kau pilih to say "i love you"

tak nak break? kau sayang ?

then you know what you supposed to do.

sit and talk. heart-to-heart talkis the best

try to convince her/him, put efforts for it, comfort the broken heart

KAU JANGAN MELENTING SEBAB KAU DAH SALAH

this is not win-win talk

kita nak settle. that's it

after that dah baik baru kau sedar your talk is actually a win-win talk

both you get the sweetness

hati tenang

no more serabut shits in your head

REFLECT AND RETHINK

you still have time to change, to fix

i love you x