HOW TO FIX US?
having a relationship is not hard, unless you know and play your role
deal it, or leave it
we are now on the rocks, but you should know how to make it clear
how to stop it and how to end it
but if there's something really wrong, you need to convince yourself to stay and convince your partner to not leaving you and also trust you
we need all basic tenants to fix what we had done
communication, trust, understanding, hardwork and commitment are needed
FIRST
make decision
to fix or not to fix?
if you choose to fix, and you are attempting to fix the broken relationship, it is important for you to know either it is worth to fix or not.
you have to find out between you two still sharing the same love and commitments and you two can bring back the trust and respect in this relationship in case the relationship can be saved.
LOVE alone is not enough
you need trust, respect, commitments in the relationship to make it better and log-lasting
if you really love her/him, want her/him in your life, and need her/him in your life, then you should know what to do
if you have fear of losing the partner, and you know you wouldnt find one , then you should know your decision
you will realise the relationship is worth fixing when you canfeel the pleasure and sweetness after all efforts you put outweigh the anger and pain you have felt in the past. you two also willingly to forgive and forget and restart the new one.
SECOND
forgive and forget
introspection
we all make mistakes. we are normal human living, we will do mistakes
to everyone
well, to make your relationship fixed and saved, do forgive and forget
on the day one you said "i love you" you should know and accept his/her in and out. all the flaws. all the bad histories. the families. the life.
yes, somebody will change to the best for her/his best
can you just accept it, try to adapt because she/he is putting efforts for it
what past, is past. focus on what you want in the future
stand, and look into yourself. your own past. reflect and rethink instead of putting all the blames on your partner.
take time, and examine - what caused you two on the rocks
what did you contribute to the relationship until it is on the red line?
inhale deeeeeply and exhale.
reflect the specific reasons why you guys having a very big problems?
can the problems be solved between you two?
what to do with the problems?
hold hand, talk and solve - if you think that's the best way, you should know what to do now for the sake of your heart and relationship
you will feel you are now living in the best and perfect life after all. throw the bitterness, call back the sweetness
tak semua orang suka macam tu?
will be continued xx
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